Announcing S.T.A.R.L.A.B. and a Train-the-Trainer Clearinghouse
An academy for aspiring Safe Zone facilitators and a bunch of tools and resources for training trainers coming your way
How long will it take to complete the course?
That’s entirely up to you. In our Self-Guided Foundational Safe Zone Training, for example, we have enough material, prompts, and exercises to keep you occupied for several days of intense learning. Or you could complete it in 2 – 3 hours. Because our courses are self-guided, you determine how long they’ll take. Some of our activities… Read more »
Announcing Online LGBTQ+ Courses at The Safe Zone Project
You can start learning online today with our first course, and we’ll be releasing more in the coming weeks.
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Why would I pay $79 or $158 dollars when I can take the course for free?
Because you want to. Because you’re able to. Because you want to support us! Because it feels good to pay for quality things you care about and you have the means to do so. Because you really got something out of our website and this is a mechanism that allows you to give back. Or… Read more »
Why do you encourage people to attend in-person Safe Zone trainings?
Here are four, of so-many-more-we-could-list, reasons. At an in-person training, you have the chance to… Meet other people in your community who are interested in learning more about gender and sexuality. While workshops and trainings are awesome they often are just the start of the conversation and it’s great to have folks you’re already connected… Read more »
Announcing Spanish-Language Safe Zone Curriculum, and Safe Zone 201: Race + LGBTQ
Because we know this conversation needs to keep going.
For Our 5th Birthday, 5 Fabulous Announcements
Our gifts to you: new website, curriculum, online LGBTQ+ courses, S.T.A.R.L.A.B., and Train-the-Trainer Clearinghouse
Privilege for Sale & Coming Out Handout
This combo activity invites participants to deeply engage with privilege and segues into a conversation about the coming out process.
LGBTQ Umbrella
A mini explanation of queer, LGBTQ. A useful place to start helping folks separate genders from sexualities.
Self-Guided Foundational Safe Zone Training
Foundational LGBTQ+ understanding & inclusion — online, at your pace
Is your curriculum really free? What’s the catch?
Yes, it 100% is. And there are no catches. For serious. We get it. The way we do things is a little, well, different. A lot of people have grown to expect curriculum to cost hundreds of dollars to use, and to come with a lot of caveats, usage restrictions, and hoops to jump through. A lot… Read more »
I want to attend a Safe Zone training. How do I do that?
Google! We’re not being snarky, either. We suggest searching [Your Town/City/Region Name] + “Safe Zone LGBTQ Trainings” and seeing what comes up. Even if the training isn’t called “Safe Zone,” (and they often won’t be) you’ll likely find something that will scratch a similar itch. If that doesn’t work, reach out to any local LGBTQ+… Read more »
I went through a “Safe Zone” training with a different curriculum. Were they doing it wrong?
Our curriculum is used by a whole lot of educators (over 25,000 in over 100 countries at last check), but it is definitely not the only “Safe Zone” curriculum out there. Nor was our curriculum the first “Safe Zone” curriculum. Tons of schools and organizations offer “Safe Zone” trainings that are dissimilar, and have existed… Read more »
I want to customize your curriculum for [some specific population]. Is that okay?
Heck. Yes. Our curricula, activities, and resources are all uncopyrighted, and reasons like this are WHY THAT IS SO EXCITING FOR US. So you have our permission 100%. Here’s one word of caution: people often think they need to customize our Foundational Curriculum for a ton of reasons (their group is more “advanced,” or older, or… Read more »
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A Few Pronoun Best [Preferred?] Practices
Tips for how-to, when, and how-not-to ask for someone’s pronouns.
Is your curriculum evidence-based?
Nope. Our curriculum is evidence-informed, but not evidence-based. Here’s why: We tweak the curriculum several times a year based on changes in culture, research, and feedback from facilitators. We overhaul the curriculum every year (including frequent substantive changes to the structure, or replacing activities) Our curriculum is used in over 100 countries in more capacities… Read more »
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New Curriculum, Internship Program, & More: Our 4th Birthday Update
Adding a little silver lining to the storm cloud that is 2017.
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When are applications due?
Applications are accepted on a rolling basis, and are generally due two weeks before the intended internship term begins (e.g., Fall Term applications are due August 15th, two weeks before September 1). We’ll announce deadlines for each term on our blog, particularly if the deadline falls outside of this rule.
How are interns selected?
Thoughtfully! All applications are reviewed by Meg & Sam personally. Beyond meeting the minimum requirements, the following criteria are considered: in what unique ways will this person complement our team, how well does their intern project mesh with our abilities to provide guidance and a platform, and what special skills or gifts do they have… Read more »
Is the internship paid?
No. Generally speaking, this is an unpaid, volunteer internship. We’re happy to work with interns to receive college credit, and if an intern facilitates or co-facilitates a training for which the SZP is gifted money, the intern is paid the same as any other facilitator.
Why we don’t certify “Safe Zone Trainers” (and don’t plan to).
It would create a problematic power relationship, add to a specific problem we’re trying to solve, and is simply beyond our capacity.
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Demystifying Coming Out
A handout (and handy activity) for demystifying coming out as well as some easy do and don’ts when it comes to supporting someone’s coming out process.
Isn’t “Queer” a bad word?
No, Sometimes, and Yes. For many people (especially those who are younger, or in more urban areas) queer is a word of pride and the best way to “umbrella” diverse sexualities and genders. For some, queer is considered a “bad word” (i.e., a slur) in some contexts, and okay in others (e.g., who is saying it,… Read more »
I did a Safe Zone [some # of] years ago. Do I need to do another one?
Depends. The material covered in Safe Zone trainings evolves over time — at least, it should. If you’re doing a Safe Zone where the material hasn’t been updated in years, it’s at best out of date, at worst harmfully inaccurate. And tons of folks do trainings using the “Safe Zone” moniker that include very different activities and… Read more »
Do I need to be “certified” to use your curriculum?
Nope! We actually don’t offer certifications anyhow, so you can’t be certified by us. Our curriculum is provided here for your use — no strings attached.
Can I modify the curriculum / resources?
Yes yes yes! Please do. Everything is uncopyrighted, and we did that for YOU. No need to ask permission, but we would appreciate you sharing back anything cool you make, so we can spread the word.
I’ve attended a Safe Zone, but it was completely different than what your workshops looks like — was it wrong?
Nope. Just to clarify there is no “right” or “wrong” way to run a Safe Zone workshop, we just think there are “better” or “more effective” ways to go about getting the information out there and meeting your goals. Our curriculum is what we think is the bestest and most effective way to accomplish our… Read more »
My school doesn’t have a Safe Zone program — how do I change that?
Great question. First off – you’ve come to a great place to start! You’ve got few things to take into consideration. What are your goals for the program? Who do you want to train and how many individuals would that be? How can you access some (don’t need much) funding? Can you do this without… Read more »
LGBT vs LGBTQ vs GLBTQ vs GLBTQQIAPTS vs …
As you may have noticed, on the site and in our curriculum we tend to use the acronym LGBTQ+ when referring to the queer community. Is this the right acronym to use? No, there really isn’t a “right” one — they all have their pros and cons. This is just the one we feel has… Read more »
Why do you include an asterisk in Trans*?
The term transgender is often used as an umbrella term for many other terms that indicate an individual is not cisgender. We use the word trans* throughout this site to indicate this umbrella term-y-ness and as an inclusive way to indicate a variety of non-cisgender identities in one simple term. We pronounce this term simply… Read more »
I have an activity I think you should add to the site. Do you want to see it?
Yes! One of our goals for this project is to turn it into the go-to resource online for sexuality and gender education activities, so we’d like to add as many as possible. If you have a great activity we don’t already have on the site, drop us a line. No guarantees we’ll add it, and… Read more »
What about advanced workshops? Safe Zone 201 perhaps?
Our Foundational Curriculum is a designed to create a Safe Zone 101 overview workshop. We recommend this workshop for all audiences – gay, straight, queer, allied, and anywhere in between (or outside) those categories. While some of it may be old information for some, we believe that everyone, no matter their knowledge level, will get… Read more »
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Core Vocabulary
This activity focuses in on the essential vocabulary and LGBTQ terminology relating to gender and sexuality.
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Your Stereotypical Life Story
Highlighting the pervasiveness of stereotypes, as well as their inability to accurately tell individuals’ stories
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Vocabulary Extravaganza
An activity to get to know common (and some less common) LGBTQ related vocabulary!
Happy Birthday to Us: Two Big Announcements for You
You’re probably thinking “Oh no! I didn’t get The Safe Zone Project a present.” Awkward. We know. But we were prepared.
11 Invaluable Lessons on the Path to Becoming an All-Star Social Justice Educator
If you’re looking for a few ways to up your facilitation game, look no further.
Mastering the “Yes, And…” Rule
How to redirect a someone in a social justice conversation without shutting them down
How to Read a Group
The importance of responding to the group’s needs, checking in with individual members, and how to pick up what they’re putting down
Speaking for a Group Identity: A How-Not-To
Responding to the request to speak on behalf of all [blank] people
Finding Your Style: You Gotta Werk at Your Work
The importance of putting your personal spin on any curriculum you facilitate
Marked vs. Unmarked Identities with Deborah Tannen
Exploring the concept of identity from an important perspective: when it matters more, and when it goes unnoticed
Responding to Buzzfeed: “Everything You Wanted to Know About Transgender People”
A few suggestions for small improvements and additions (but an overall major thumbs up!) to a great Buzzfeed article about trans* people.
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Become a Safe Zone All-Star!
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Coming Out Story
An experiment in empathizing with a hypothetical person’s experiences, struggles, and setbacks with the lifelong process that is coming out.
Meet Sam Killermann, Safe Zone Project Co-Creator
Between It’s Pronounced Metrosexual, Gamers Against Bigotry, and A Guide to Gender, Sam has his hand in a lot of pots. Here he explains why he added this one to the stovetop.
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Genderbread Person
Using the Genderbread Person as a guide, the activity leads participants to understand the important difference between gender, sex, and sexual orientation.
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Under Construction – Check back Mid-July
We’ll be here sooner than you know it. Stay tuned!